Madrid is one of those European Cities, which oozes culture and sophistication and yet is often forgotten about when one considers iconic European destinations. True, it is not Paris, Amsterdam or even Barcelona...but this fact in itself makes Madrid a must. The entire city is not, like others, entirely concerned with tourism, which creates a real sense of authenticity. And whilst Madrid is by no means behind as a post-modern metropolis, one still feels that one is getting a true taste of Spain when visiting, and not some regurgiated British tourist trap (selling chicken nuggets and pond water tea in every cafe!) which you get in other areas of Spain. In short if you wish to taste Spanish culture visit Madrid, and not the Costas or Balearics.
In Madrid, everyone speaks (believe it or not) Spanish! So it's worth learning a few polite phrases before you go. Let's leave behind this old fashioned view that everyone in the world should speak English and embrace the beauties of different European tounges (many of which were around way before modern day English!) It feels so much more authentic and mediterranean to visit a resturant or cafe and hear the beautiful, relaxed Spanish rolling off the tongues of the locals. The relaxed atmosphere of the cafe culture in Spain is another huge positive. Unlike in London or Paris, you can walk into a resturant, without a reservation and relax with tapas and a beer for anything up to an hour before a table becomes available, however because everything is open so much later and life is so much slower, this is far from a cause of frustration, and in fact becomes a social part of the evening in itself! It is such a refreshing feeling, not to feel rushed! eating is a really social and integral past time to the Spanish, and something that plays a major part in the evening's entertainment, rather than a formal precursor (or drunken conclusion!)
One thing to bear in mind is that locals in Madrid don't tend to go out until much later in the evening, and may not eat their evening meal until 10pm, after which they will go to bars and clubs. This means that entertainment in general runs much later, with many clubs not even opening until 12am! Again, this reflects the much more relaxed lifestyle of the Spaniards, and I would encourage anyone visiting to really embrace this. (Besides, if you stay in the centre of Madrid, like we did, you won't get any sleep until the early hours anyway, so you might as well make the most of it!)
A great place to start when you first arrive in Madrid is the Jardines Botanico. A lovely place to spend an hour or two, strolling through the beautiful greenery, basking in the Spanish sunshine, and perhaps even learning a thing or two along the way. It is a great place to start whilst trying to get your bearings, as it is an open and relaxed attraction, there is no pressure to get straight into touristy activity. One can simply stroll through and decide on the itinery for the day/s ahead or merely catch your breath after travelling. Furthermore, the gardens hold quite a central position in terms of the city's attractions, sitting adjacent to the Museo Del Prado, and in between Plaza Mayor and Retiro Parque. In this sense it is a great reference point (i thought of it as the 'middle' of our intended destinations.) however, without over complicating tings too much, it is actually an attraction well worth visiting!
After spending an hour in this manner, I suggest coming out onto the beautiful tree-lined shady promenade that is Paseo Del Prado, and heading right towards the Congresso De Los Diputados, a very large and grand congress building which is guarded by Police and massed by a proud red and yellow flag! I think that tours of the congress building are available, however, we didn't have the time to go inside, so we just spent a few moments admiring it's grandeur from the outside.
A fantastic place to spend a lazy afternoon in Madrid is the wonderfully vibrant Plaza Mayor. A square filled with cafes, bars and bistros. Relax with a bottle of beer and some tapas. A great place to just sit for a few hours and people watch. Let the buskers entertain you while the waiters bring out your drinks and charm you into spending more than you probably should! That leads me onto my word of warning...as a tourism hotspot, the bars and cafes in Plaza Mayor have a habit of charging much more than might be considered reasonable for their services. Expect to pay 7 or 8 euros for a bottle of beer/ glass of wine, and also expect the buskers to actively 'ask' for payment for their 'services'. I found, however, that being prepared for such things helps and certainly wouldn't avoid the place for this reason...it really is Madrid's cultural hub and definately worth a visit, even if it's just a stop off with a sandwich, and a chance to take in the wonderfully painted buildings.
Retiro Parque is another fantastic place to spend a couple of hours whilst in Madrid. A huge park that dominates the centre of the city is a wonderful pace to stroll and get away from the hustle and bustle of the metropolis. A good city is always balanced with a good mixture of green spaces and retiro parque certainly creates that balance. With the famous and beautiful statue sitting grandly in the centre of the lake, its a wonderful place to go for a picnic and you can even hire a pedalo for an hour or so to really take it all in. I always think of the city parks as being the 'feminine' section of the city, the natural, irrational and beautiful areas that contradict with the 'masculine' rationality and 'phallic' presence of the built-up city. Somwhere that you can wander rather than walking in straight, predetermind lines. Whilst I love city breaks, I also find myself feeling suffocated after a while, and the parks offer the regained sense of freedom, somewhere unregimented where you can stretch out, breathe deeply and rejuvenate.
There are plenty of wonderful museums to visit in Madrid, especially for art lovers. My favourite is the Museo del Prado a beautiful, grand old building which houses a wonderful collection of classic and contemporary art and often holds exhibitions from the Spanish greats such as Goya and Picasso. Again, you have to pay to access the museums, but it's definitely worth it to spend a few hours admiring the wonderful collections available.